The Mom Crowd

I bought my nursing cover from Rosanna a few weeks ago and I love it! I have used the cover a few times in public and it works great. I am not one of those suave mothers that can whip their boob in and out before you even know what happened. I am clumsy and modest; I need security that I am not going to flash all of Ikea.

The nursing cover is large enough to conceal everything. The ring in the strap is adjustable. The best part is the wire at the top of the cover that forms an opening for me to watch Ace and for her to see me. She doesn’t seem to mind being under the cover. The material is not very heavy. There is a terry cloth corner that weighs the material down and can serve as a burp wipe. I have not tried to wash my cover yet, so I don’t know how it comes out in the wash.

Rosanna has many beautiful prints to choose from. You can’t beat the price at $25 each. She only charges $2 for shipping. Most covers I looked at were $35 plus. When you buy from Rosanna you are supporting a local mom and not a corporate chain. Rosanna was prompt to answer my emails and ordering was easy.

Next time you need a beautiful and functional nursing cover for yourself or a new mommy check out Nursing Covers by Rosanna.

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We got this email from a reader:

I had my second child without medication. Not by choice but because I didn’t make it to the hospital in time. It was painful but I liked that the recovery was so much easier. I am considering going natural when we get pregnant with our third child. I like the concept of childbirthing centers. Is natural childbirth safe in a childbirthing facility? What if something unpredictable happens during the birth? How are the midwifes prepared for emergencies?

Amelia responds:

Since I have only had unmedicated births, I don’t have anything to compare it to, but my friends that have had a natural birth after a medicated one have also said that the recovery time is easier and faster. I would love to hear your birth story!

Free standing birth centers are a great place to have a baby and yes they are safe. I would venture to say that natural childbirth is safer at a birth center than in a hospital. They are a great alternative for people who want a more home-like facility but don’t feel comfortable having a home birth. Some moms prefer a birth center experience after having a disappointing experience at a hospital or want a natural birth and don’t want to hassle with routine hospital procedures. Birth Centers are usually run by Certified Nurse Midwives (CNMs) which means that they have a nursing degree and have also completed a degree and training in midwifery at an accredited school. Birth centers typically have lower c-section rates, episiotomies, inductions, infections, and the list goes on. For example, the birth center I had Graham in has a 7.5% C-section rate, compared to a 30% national rate. Midwives are often better trained to help women cope with the pain of labor and are available to help support the woman throughout the labor. Birth centers also let women eat and drink throughout labor. Hydration and food for nourishment are important factors for allowing a woman’s body to flourish during labor. No matter where a woman chooses to give birth, the most important thing is to feel confident and comfortable with your birth provider and the birth facility.

A word about midwives:
Most midwives have a different perspective when it comes to birth. Midwives are trained to look at birth as a normal, natural event. Obstetricians are trained surgeons and are trained to scoping out problems. As a result OBs tend to do a lot more testing and intervention during pregnancy and birth and have a much higher c-section rate. Many midwives also spend more time with their patients and take time to answer questions.

In my own experience with midwives, I have left appointments feeling like they have taken the time to get to know ME as a whole person. The midwife group for my last pregnancy was amazing. I felt like they were looking out for me during and after the pregnancy. The midwife who caught Graham called me this past Monday, seven weeks after the birth, to check up on me and the baby. They knew that I had struggled with postpartum depression after my second birth and have been very proactive about making sure I have the support network I need.

To answer your question about emergencies, birth centers are often close to a hospital so that if a transfer is needed it is easy to get there in an emergency. Birth centers also screen their patients throughout the pregnancy to make sure they are low risk. Most births will proceed with little problem and usually when a problem develops it shows up over a period of time. A woman that falls into a high risk category (i.e. pre-eclampsia, diabetes requiring insulin) will be asked to birth in the hospital. Women who need to be induced with Pitocin will be asked to birth in the hospital as well. In my last birth, I had shoulder dystocia, which is where the baby’s shoulders get stuck under the pubic bone. Graham’s head was out and we had to get the rest of him out quickly. Our midwife was calm and instructed me how to help her get the baby out. It was a serious situation. After Graham came out he was floppy and needed oxygen. The midwife and nurse knew exactly what to do and did it well.

Midwives are required to be trained in infant and adult resuscitation. They also have local anesthesia available for any tissue repairs after the birth. They have medications available for things like postpartum hemorrhage and will transfer to the hospital should a need arise during or after the birth.

I would encourage you to find a birth center in your area and ask to take a tour. I would also encourage you to take an independent childbirth class or do some additional reading to help you prepare for your next birth.

Some great books are:

Creating Your Birth Plan: A Definitive Guide to a Safe and Empowering Birth by Marsden Wagner

Thinking Woman’s Guide to a Better Birth by Henci Goer

Natural Birth the Bradley Way by Susan McCutcheon

Yesterday the U.S. Consumer Product Safety Commission announced a recall of Bumbo Baby Sitter seats, because there have been reports of children falling out of them and three children had skull fractures.

Basically, the CPSC is warning parents against the seats being placed on tables and counter tops. Children can arch their backs and flip out of the seat. The recall will put new warning labels on the seats.

I place Ace in her bumbo seat just about every day on our kitchen table while we have dinner. I even fed Ace in her chair on the table for the first time yesterday. I know that as soon as I see Ace arch her back or when she is growing tired of sitting there, I take her out.

As with all baby products, we just need to use common sense.

I have been going back and forth about getting a bumper for Ace’s crib. I have a friend who works for a child’s advocacy group and she is very anti-bumper. In my child birth class and they said not to use one, because of SIDs and suffocation. I also don’t have one, because I am cheap frugal.

I find Ace with her arms and legs sticking out of her crib or her head right up against the rails. I think she is just about past the SIDs stage and she can control her head now. So I am thinking about getting one. Ultimately, I think either way is probably okay.

This question got me wondering about other parents. Do you or did you use a bumper?