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Bringing Your Baby to the Office: Having Two Bosses at the Same Time

by Amanda on April 2, 2008
category: 0 – 1 year (baby),In the news,Inspiration

babyatwork.jpgAs I was passing time at the airport bookstore an article on the cover of USA Today caught my eye. The headline reads, “Day care’s new frontier: Your baby at your desk.” The article by Stephanie Armour explains how some companies are allowing parents to bring their infant up to 6 or 9 months in age to work with them. Most of the referenced companies are desk jobs. A company in Austin called T3 even gives parents their own private office when they start bringing in their baby with them. The companies and their employees have concerns about productivity, liability issues, health concerns, and what is best for the baby.

If my old job as a Human Resources Specialist allowed me to bring my baby with me to my desk, I may have been tempted to stay, but I wouldn’t have done it. I don’t know if I could have handled the demands of a boss, emails, managers on the phone, co-workers, my growing inbox, and on top of all that my baby too! Some moms are able to handle all that, but not me. Also, I know some moms have to work and it would be a huge blessing to have their little one beside them all day. Although there are some moms who definitely enjoy the break they get from their baby when they are at work.

I would have had some health concerns about bringing my child in the office. I think our building was cleaned maybe twice a year. Our building was old and had bad circulation and many employees got sick often. I don’t know if I would have brought Ace into that environment with co-workers that came into the office clearly too sick to work. The USA Today articles cites one company where bringing in babies would not work in their office because of the open floor plan. My old job where each person gets their own corner of a large square cubicle would not have suited a pack-n-play and swing. We had so many folders and drawers I would have been afraid of a stack of files falling on my baby!

Productivity specialists are raising eyebrows at the practice, saying it could amount to favoritism for parents and rankle co-workers who don’t want to put up with a baby gurgling — or worse — in the next cubicle.

As a Human Resources major I can see both the benefit of retaining great employees and the downsides of jealous co-workers and annoyances. I think for babies in the office to work the culture of the company has to be the right setting. Some clients may be put off by the mom in the meeting wearing a Baby Bjorn and standing while everyone else is seated at the conference table. I think if I were that mom all I would be thinking is “Don’t cry! Don’t cry!” and have a hard time paying attention to the meeting. I also believe that the baby would be a total distraction to everyone else. A baby is a lot more interesting than any power point slide show.

Co-workers may be jealous because of favoritism, but the opposite may be true. Parents with little ones at work may be discriminated against or looked over for promotions, because “they can’t handle it.” The article also shares how fathers have taken the opportunity to bring their little one to work with them. I wonder if the mothers would haven even more discrimination than the fathers with babies. The parents may feel pressure to produce more to keep up with other employees. I think I would have an issue with a parent that isn’t keeping up their end of a project. Of course, I would have grace for them, but deep down it would totally annoy me. The article mentions that parents are paid for their time when they are tending to their little one, but where do you draw the line? Would they have a clock in and clock out system on their computer? Will a parent have to work 10 or 11-hour days to ensure that they got their 8 hours of work done? It seems logistically difficult, but could work for company cultures that are open to flexible schedules and have understanding employees.

Many companies balk at the concept of babies at work full time. At Ernst & Young accounting firm, parents can get subsidized, backup child care in their homes.

Some companies offer alternatives to bringing your baby to work such as subsidizing the cost of childcare in the home. I had a co-worker that had a nanny come everyday to her house. I know she felt better about herself for working knowing her children were home. Another alternative is on-site child care. You can get your work done while someone watches your child. You are within a few minutes walk if you have some time to spend with them. GDC Marketing and Communication in San Antonio, TX is a great example of how a small company with on site child care, and a welcoming corporate culture can all work together to maintain a work-family life balance.

If my baby were at work with me I would get nothing done. Even now I wait to get my blogging done at night when Ace doesn’t need me because she fell over and banged her head again.

What are your thoughts about the article? If you could bring your baby to work with you would you? If you don’t work outside the house anymore what would it look like if you brought your baby with you to work?

For more thoughts about the USA Today’s article check out Laura Vanderkam post in the Huffington Post.

9 Responses to Bringing Your Baby to the Office: Having Two Bosses at the Same Time

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    Comment by Deb
    April 2, 2008 @ 1:00 am

    I started a new job when my oldest daughter was 6 months old, and they said I could bring her to work with me…BUT we all quickly found that it wouldn’t work.

    For one, I shared an office with 3 other people and babies that age need a lot of your attention. It just wasn’t possible for me to work with her with me.

    I do appreciate more companies working with their employees on this issue…and think it needs to be thought out and carefully planned on both sides if it’s to work effectively.

  • Sharon M
    Comment by Sharon M
    April 2, 2008 @ 4:56 am

    Made me think of “The Office,” beginning of season 3, when one of the people that was part of the merger is a mom that pumps milk while she sits at her desk (earning her some strange looks from the men in the office), and occasionally brings her baby to work. She didn’t last more than a couple of episodes.

    I don’t think I would either.

  • Amanda
    Comment by Amanda
    April 2, 2008 @ 12:06 pm

    Deb – That is cool that you tried it! At least you had the chance to see if it would work. The article does mention having some policies and procedures in place before starting. There definitely needs some protocol.

    Sharon – I am still catching up on ‘The Office’. I haven’t gotten to Season 3. I have watched most of season 1 and all of Season 4. Can’t wait to watch those episodes!! Jim and Pam 4evah!

  • Dawn
    Comment by Dawn
    April 2, 2008 @ 12:25 pm

    Amanda, we Office fans call them “Jam”. :)

    Season 2 is the pinnacle but Season 3 has some humdingers too!! I also LOVED the episode in the fourth season where the do the “Meredith Palmer Memorial Celebrity Rabies Awareness Pro-Am Fun Run Race For The Cure”. Classic!!

    I can’t wait for the new eps to start!!

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    Comment by Kristi
    April 2, 2008 @ 1:44 pm

    The new episodes of the Office start April 10th!!! I’m so looking forward to it.

    I would also like to add that while I don’t work at an office I do get to take my child to work with me. Oh, great I feel like the “bragging” parent. I work at a gym and I’m able to let my child stay in the childcare there. It works out great for our family because I only work part-time. I wish more places would offer on site day care. I feel at ease knowing I can check in on my daughter anytime I want to.

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    Comment by myra
    April 3, 2008 @ 6:51 am

    i’ve lurked for awhile and thought i’d join in on this discussion.

    in addition to running a web-based business, i work FT outside the home. i think it’s great that companies are starting to look at ways to integrate family and work because let’s face it, with technology, the line is becoming more blurred all the time. that said, my job would have been no place for my son as a baby. my performance is judged enough. i wouldn’t have wanted my parenting to fall under scrutiny too. but i think there are many more possibilities for companies to support moms (and dads). in house child care would be such a help to us, but i’m told the liability is too great.

    can’t wait for the new episodes of the office to start!

  • Amanda
    Comment by Amanda
    April 3, 2008 @ 11:28 am

    Myra – Thanks for commenting! I didn’t even think about your parenting skills being under scrutiny as well. There would have been a lot of that at my job. Along with a myriad of suggestions of how to calm my baby. No thank you.

    That is a bummer that in house child care is too much of a liability. Maybe the could subsidize the cost of child care or an in-home nanny. I know a lot of employees would appreciate the help!

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    Comment by Marla
    April 3, 2008 @ 4:29 pm

    I have a very difficult time just writing my blog with my child around. I can not imagine taking her to work! That would be very difficult. Even if I worked from home.

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    Comment by baby boy
    April 15, 2008 @ 10:58 am

    It hard to concentrate on your job when your 9 month old baby with you.